Chinese etiquette

Chinese etiquette tips(14 tips)

• Give and receive with both handsIn China business cards, gifts and other objects are handed over and received with both hands — it is a sign of respect.
• Never stand chopsticks in the riceChopsticks standing upright in a bowl of rice are associated with funeral rites. Lay them on the chopstick rest instead.
• Show respect to eldersShow respect to those older or more senior. Use polite forms of address and let them speak first.
• Be punctualArrive on time for meetings and events. Being late can be taken as disrespect for other people’s time.
• How to behave in a business meetingGreet everyone, exchange business cards, stay polite and reserved. Avoid being too blunt — harmony is valued.
• Choose the right giftGood gifts: quality tea, souvenirs with cultural meaning, food from your home region. Avoid clocks, sharp objects and white flowers.
• WeChat etiquetteUse your real name or a clear nickname, add a short greeting, don’t message too late at night and respect other people’s time.
• Speak respectfullySpeak calmly, avoid raising your voice, stay tactful. A direct “no” is better softened with polite wording.
• Follow the table customsWait for the senior person to invite everyone to start, try the dishes, offer food to others, and don’t pick only your favourites — it can seem impolite.
• Steer clear of “sensitive” topicsAvoid talking about politics, Taiwan, religion or criticising China. Culture, food, travel and shared interests are better topics.
• Show interest in the cultureAsk questions, take an interest in traditions, try the local food. Genuine interest is always appreciated!
• Ask before you take a photoDon’t photograph people without permission — especially in temples, on private property and during business meetings.
• Dress appropriatelyChoose business attire for business meetings. Avoid overly revealing clothes. A neat appearance shows respect.
• Respect personal spaceDon’t be pushy, avoid unnecessary touching and loud displays of emotion in public.